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January 30, 1863
The Willimantic journal (Willimantic, Conn.) — Town, Windham
“Should Grief Be Fashionable? A Connecticut Town Debates Mourning in Wartime (1863)”
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What's on the Front Page

The January 30, 1863 edition of the Willimantic Journal leads with a romantic allegorical poem titled "The Flowers' Tears: A Legend of the Dew-Drops," telling of flowers that nearly perish in drought before heaven sends rain as salvation. But the real meat of this wartime Connecticut paper lies in its heated local debate over mourning customs. Multiple readers argue passionately about whether social pressure forces families—especially the poor—to wear expensive mourning clothes and badges when a relative dies. One correspondent, "Hombre," recounts an awkward moment when wearing a mourning badge prompted an acquaintance to ask "who are you in mourning for?" within five minutes, proving his point that such displays invite unwanted public inquiry. The paper also reprints a fascinatingly detailed 1739 petition from Windham town officers to the Connecticut General Assembly complaining about rampant "profane swearing and cursing" in town, signed by figures like Benjamin Follet and Nathaniel Huntington (father of a future governor). The issue concludes with genealogical records of the Backus family, Windham's early settlers.

Why It Matters

In January 1863, America was mid-Civil War—Lincoln had issued the Emancipation Proclamation just weeks earlier on January 1st. One contributor, Warren Clark, explicitly connects the horrors of battle to slavery itself, writing that "blood and carnage flow" while "my own children, and children's children are on the tented field." The mourning debate, meanwhile, reveals economic anxiety in wartime Connecticut: families couldn't afford the sudden wardrobe changes fashion demanded when someone died, yet faced social judgment for refusing them. These small-town disputes about propriety and obligation were playing out everywhere as Civil War casualties mounted and communities struggled with both grief and its proper expression.

Hidden Gems
  • Warren Clark's lament about soldiers "sick and weary on his picket rounds" during "storms of rain, hail, snow and sleet" captures the brutal winter conditions soldiers endured—written just as Union forces were freezing at winter encampments in 1863.
  • The 1739 Windham petition reveals that town constables couldn't enforce profanity laws because local justices of the peace had stopped punishing it, leaving officers in legal limbo—a 124-year-old record of bureaucratic frustration reprinted to shame modern readers into better behavior.
  • "Hombre" notes that wearing a mourning badge 'advertised publicly for sympathy'—treating grief as commerce, a remarkably modern critique of performative emotion written in 1863.
  • The genealogy records William Backus receiving land in 1691 for settling Windham, but by 1730—nearly 40 years later—he'd become so impoverished that the town proprietors had to give him and his wife 1.5 acres of charity land 'considering that William Backus was one of the ancient inhabitants...now attained to old age and reduced to poverty.'
  • One child listed is 'Lemuel or Samuel, b. Sept. 21, 1722, died by a shot from ye Indians at Kinderhook Fort June ye 11th day 1748'—a casualty of King George's War, buried in this dry genealogical record.
Fun Facts
  • The debate over mourning badges in wartime Willimantic mirrors a national crisis: Victorian mourning customs required expensive crepe, special fabrics, and years of dark clothing depending on kinship—Queen Victoria herself wouldn't leave mourning for Prince Albert until her death 38 years later in 1901, setting an extreme standard the world followed.
  • Warren Clark's invocation of 'the God that defended Israel' crashing 'the institution to pieces, together with horses and chariots' is deliberate Biblical language—just weeks after the Emancipation Proclamation, religious justification for abolition was exploding in Northern churches and newspapers.
  • The 1739 petition about profanity enforcement reveals that Connecticut's legal system had already hit a snag enforcing morality laws—a problem that would persist into Prohibition two centuries later, when justices again refused to prosecute certain 'crimes' they didn't believe in.
  • Nathaniel Huntington, one of the constables signing the 1739 anti-profanity petition, was the father of Governor Samuel Huntington, who would later sign the Declaration of Independence (1776)—local records capturing the family tree of America's founding generation.
  • The poem's romantic vision of flowers weeping and trees sympathizing reflects 19th-century Romantic literature's influence on even small Connecticut newspapers—this sentimental nature-worship was wildly popular while Civil War casualty lists filled the back pages of the same publications.
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